Transform Your relationship

A 6-Week Online Couples Workshop to Heal the Real Conflict Beneath the Arguments

If you keep having the same argument over and over—whether it's about parenting, money, tone of voice, or who's giving more in the relationship—it's likely not about the surface issue. It's about what’s underneath.

The Fight Beneath the Fight is a 6-week online couples workshop that goes beyond quick fixes or communication tips. Through the lens of schema therapy, you’ll explore how your childhood experiences shaped your emotional triggers, how those triggers are playing out in your relationship today, and how to stop repeating painful patterns that leave you disconnected.

This workshop is about healing the deeper layers of conflict so you can connect with your partner in a way that feels safe, grounded, and real.

What You'll Learn:

• Why your arguments feel bigger than the issue at hand
   
• How unmet emotional needs from childhood show up in your relationship
   
• How to recognize your own triggers and respond instead of react
   
• How to de-escalate conflict from a place of self-awareness and compassion
   
• How to rebuild trust and connection without losing yourself
   

Workshop Details:

• Start Date: Wednesday, September 25, 2025
   
• Time: 6:00 – 7:30 PM PST (via Zoom)
   
• Length: 6 weekly sessions (90 minutes each)
   
• Cost: $150 per couple, per session ($900 total)
   
• Early Bird Discount: $850 if paid in full by September 4, 2025
   
• Group Size: Limited to 5 couples for depth, connection, and individualized attention
   
• Location: Online via private Zoom link
   

Schema-informed couples work helps each partner take ownership of their unmet emotional needs, so they stop expecting the other person to fix what was never resolved in childhood. By learning how your past shapes the way you interpret your partner’s actions—and how they interpret yours—you begin to respond from a balanced, grounded mindset rather than old emotional pain.

This shift allows for better listening, more effective repair, and deeper connection. It's not about becoming perfect—it’s about becoming more self-aware, emotionally safe, and open to real connection.

• You keep having the same argument and it never really resolves
   
• You feel triggered, shut down, or emotionally distant in conflict
   
• You want to stop reliving the past in your relationship
   
• You’re ready to understand what’s really driving the pain—and grow together
   

Stop Fighting the Same Fight

The Fight Beneath the Fight gives you a roadmap to understand your deeper needs, hold space for your partner’s, and move forward with more empathy, clarity, and emotional safety.

 Spots are limited to 5 couples.  Request more information: sherryjones.lcsw@gmail.com